Hawaii

Why are we starting a post about Hawaii with photos from cities getting farther and farther away from the islands? I mean, Canada?? Wrong direction! Valid point. But for our amazing trip to the state that broke us into the double digits in our quest to #SeeAll50, we flew from Orlando to Cleveland, from Cleveland to Denver, and from Denver to Vancouver where we spent the night before boarding our cruise ship. 

That's right. To get to the islands we spent a full week at sea cruising down from Vancouver, British Columbia on the Celebrity Eclipse. And yes, it was just as wonderful as it sounds. We ate great food, spent lots of time reading, went to amazing shows, and enjoyed the most gorgeous sunsets. Oh, and aside from the excellent staff on board the ship, we were probably the youngest people there by a solid 40 years. 

After seven glorious days at sea, we made it to Hilo on the Big Island of Hawaii where we hopped on a shuttle to go pick up our rental car and explore Volcanoes National Park. 

This day was an interesting mix of sunny and rainy, clear blue skies and thick fog. The weather on the Big Island would change in a matter of seconds throughout the day. Being the Florida girl I am, I thought I knew how unpredictable tropical weather can be but this was something altogether different than what I'm used to in my Sunshine State. We did a good bit of hiking and a fair amount of driving as well. This park is huge, and everything was sort of devastatingly beautiful. Pictures can't do it justice, but here are some anyway. 

~Cody in front of some of the natural steam vents~

After hiking around where all the natural steam vents are, we drove out to find the Holei Sea Arch (pictured above). 

I was really intrigued by the way the basalt looked as if it was still flowing down the island through the greenery. It was amazing to drive through these desolate lava fields but then straight back into the lush, green, tropical areas. 

~the middle of a lava field~

We then hiked down into a crater which was surreal. When the trail opened out into the crater, there was a small sign directing you to follow the ahu (stacked rocks) through the crater. Without these piles of rocks, it would be very easy to get lost and wander around for hours in the fog looking for the trail back out of the crater. What a wonder to see these beautiful living plants growing out of this seemingly impenetrable black death (I'm sure there's a spiritual analogy in there somewhere). 

We decided to spend the second day at Hilo in a couple of cozy hammocks overlooking the water rather than trying to explore because we got some hard personal news from family at home and needed time to process it. 

A day together, laughing and crying, reading and journaling was the best thing and I will never forget that time.

That evening we sailed around the island to the port at Kailua-Kona where we spent the next day exploring all the fun shops and the street market and eating the best food. 

Our first stop on Kona was at Mokuaikaua Church, Hawaii's first Christian church established in 1820. 

~shrimp and kalua pig tacos and sandwich for lunch~

~the best donuts~

~that's our cruise ship in the background~

On our tender boat ride back to the ship that evening, a whole pod of dolphins were swimming and jumping right alongside our boat. So fun!

That night, we sailed from the Big Island to Maui. Maui was the island I was looking forward to visiting the most because I've wanted to go there ever since I was a teenager and started reading Robin Jones Gunn's books. In one of her Christy Miller books, Island Dreamer, Christy goes to Maui for her 16th birthday and through a series of events ends up driving the Hana Road which gave her the confidence she needed to take her driver's test. So it's been a Bucket List goal of mine to go to Maui and drive the Hana Road. 

As we started to plan this trip, I just didn't think we'd be able to make this happen. Driving the Hana Road is an all-day endeavor and even though we'd have two days on Maui, the logistics of getting a rental car early enough in the day and being able to return it on time before the rental places closed seemed like an impossibility. So I kindof gave up on making that dream a reality on this trip.

But my husband.

Y'all. He booked us a hotel for that night on Maui, reserved us a rental car that we could pick up the day we arrived on Maui and return the following afternoon, and he let me drive the whole Hana Road all by myself. He made every single detail of my 15+ year old dream come true right down to the 2-door, cloth-top, open air, red Jeep Wrangler we drove. It was perfect.

I really can't brag on him enough. It was the best day. We had great weather and, contrary to all odds, we didn't see very many other cars at all the whole day (thank goodness! the road was as crazy as I imagined it would be). We checked out of our hotel and got on the road by about 4:30 AM. We stopped several different places along the road including the Haleakala National Park where we did lots of hiking. And we made it back to return the Jeep before the rental place closed. 

~Waianapanapa Black Sand Beach~

~Kaihalulu Beach~

Cody captured this gorgeous waterfall and rainbow in the moving Jeep while I was going over one of the many precarious bridges on the Hana Road. It's our favorite photo from the whole trip. I still can't believe he got this picture. 

~Haleakala National Park~

The sign in the lower left corner of that collage was near the Waimoku Falls where we hiked and the waters there are described "he wai makamaka 'ole", water that recognizes no friend. We took this trip in April and the waters were dangerous and flooding. When we entered the park, the ranger told us that we were absolutely not to swim anywhere. We couldn't get to the very end of the hike to the falls because the water was too dangerous to cross. But we still got a great view. Click on this next photo to really appreciate the panoramic view!

~Waimoku Falls~

~hiking through bamboo : Haleakala National Park~

~Cody proposed to me under a banyan tree : this one was gorgeous~ 

~our little red jeep on the Hana Highway~

Other fun things we managed to fit in on Maui included browsing the Friends of the Library bookstore in Lahaina Harbor (of course) and Ululani's shave ice (twice because once was not enough). 

Still with me? We're not done! We have one more island and about 20 more pictures to go! After our two days on Maui, we sailed for Oahu where we left our cruise ship for good...

...and were picked up by one of my best friends from college days! She graciously met us at the Honolulu seaport with fresh flower leis and her two small sons in tow and whisked us off to Pearl Harbor. 

We weren't able to walk onto the USS Arizona Memorial, but we spent hours exploring the Mighty Mo. 

USS Battleship Missouri

~we basically decided we could never be in the Navy~

You can still see the slight damage to the battleship where a Japanese dive-bomber crashed into the side of the ship during the Battle of Okinawa. This story was particularly moving as the commanding officer of the USS Missouri, Captain William M. Callaghan, ordered that the body of the 19 year old Japanese pilot found among the wreckage on board be prepared for a proper burial at sea. 

~teak deck~

Our last stop in Pearl Harbor was the USS Oklahoma Memorial which may be one of the most beautiful and sobering war memorials I've ever seen. 

Jen came and picked us back up and took us to her home where we spent the evening talking and eating and enjoying catching up since we haven't seen each other (other than FaceTime—God bless technology) in years. The next day, we did all kinds of fun stuff starting with snorkeling in Shark's Cove where we fed bright green frozen peas to lots of colorful fish (another fun Christy moment for me) and saw a gigantic monk seal which swam just a few feet in front of Cody, eating at food trucks, mailing all our post cards to nieces back home, and ending with the Dole Plantation for fresh Dole whips (yum!). 

Later that evening, Jen dropped us at the airport and we took an overnight flight from Honolulu to Houston to Orlando where my Dad picked us up the next afternoon. We spent one night in our own bed and then woke up early the next morning to hit the road to check off our next state. You'll never guess where. 

Hawaii : done.

But hopefully we'll be back! Have you ever visited any of the Hawaiian islands? Any guesses as to which state we went to next? Hopefully I'll have that post ready tomorrow or Friday!

Let's Bust a Recap : Homegoing

Well, so much for getting caught up on the blog in November (or blogging anything at all in November, for that matter). We're already nine days into December and I'm just now writing the first of the four recaps I mentioned needing to write back in October. And I haven't even started drafting any of the posts for the five states we visited during 2019 for our #SeeAll50 project. Oops. Oh well. The Christmas tree is up and I've been listening to all the holiday music so no complaints over here.

Homegoing is Yaa Gyasi's debut novel and was published in 2016. For a first offering from a 28 year old (at the time of publication) author, Homegoing is a wildly ambitious attempt to explore the historical origins and ramifications of slavery throughout seven generations in one family. Beginning in late 18th century Ghana, we meet the first character Effia who, through the scheming of her stepmother, is given to a British slave trader in "marriage" and taken to live with him at the Cape Coast Castle. There she lives in comfort and experiences a mutually fulfilling relationship with her British husband. 

Unbeknownst to Effia, her half-sister Esi whom she has never met and knows nothing about has been captured in the ongoing tribal wars and taken to the dungeons of the very castle Effia is living in to be shipped to America and sold into slavery there. In the following chapters alternating between Effia's and Esi's family lines, we are given glimpses of the family's history from that time all the way up to the present day.

While the subject matter and the style in which Gyasi decided to tell this story was a massive undertaking, I would say that she was successful overall in creating a compelling novel that had some depth to it. I was very impressed by the meticulous research that went into the writing of this novel which informed her writing beautifully without becoming dry or overly detailed which easily could have taken away from the characterization of the people she created. In Effia's family line, she covers the perpetual tribal wars and British colonization of Ghana; while in Esi's line she moves through slavery on American southern plantations, the Great Migration after the Civil War, the convict-lease system in Pratt City, Alabama, and the jazz clubs and dope houses of Harlem. To adequately research one of these periods of time for this novel would be admirable, but Gyasi deftly moves through all of them with skill and compassion. According to Gyasi, one of her biggest goals in writing this book was to put individual names and faces to people who lived during some of these horrific and traumatic times in our history, to remind us that these things were happening to real people, individuals, just like you and me. I think she was largely successful in doing that. 

The book is 14 chapters total, each chapter about a different character. Often I found myself getting frustrated by the lack of development of these characters. It seemed that just as a chapter was getting started, just as I was really starting to feel invested and interested in a particular character, the story stopped and we moved on to the next character, the next generation, in the book. While this was irksome to me as a reader (each character could easily have had his or her story developed into a whole novel while in Homegoing their stories were limited to approximately 20-25 pages apiece), it also made me think about how in many cases (in the book and in actual history), family members who endured slavery were often ripped apart and cut off from their own history. While I have no idea if this was something the author intended (I was unable to find any interviews in which this question was explored by the author), it added another layer of gravity to the book which, while exasperating, was profound. 

This book was not on my list for 2019 and not really on my radar at all. A sweet friend of mine put it in my hands and told me I needed to read it (thank you, Ms. Kathy!), and I'm glad because this one will stay with me for a while. It's probably not a book I will read again, but I'll be interested to see what Yaa Gyasi does in the future and I'd be willing to read another book by her.

Have you read Homegoing? Which character would you pick to get his or her own full-length novel?

Pumpkin Carving 2019

Happy Halloween!

Can you even believe it's already the end of October? This little corner of the internet has been sadly neglected this month. And not for lack of things to post about. According to the rules of this completely self-imposed chore hobby, I have 4 book recaps waiting to be written and 5 state posts that also need to be logged (for our #SeeAll50 project). Yikes. Perhaps November will be the month that I get all caught up on that (but I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you). 

But forget all that! It's time for our annual pumpkin carving post, and this is the first year that I feel like Cody actually said my pumpkin was the winner and really meant it (instead of giving me an obligatory spousal pity vote). However, I showed my BFF Christina a photo of our finished pumpkins and asked her to pick her favorite without telling her which pumpkin belonged to which carver and she picked Cody's right off the bat. *sigh* You'll have to let me know which one you like the best in the comments below. 

{ready to do this}

{this year the Little Man was ready to get in on the pumpkin carving action}

{check those sweet photo-bombing puppies}

October 30, 2019

Let's Bust a Recap : Humility

This little book on humility by Charles Joseph Mahaney was published in 2005 and is less than 200 pages long making it a very manageable read. It made it onto my 2019 book list when I asked my husband to recommend a few of our top shelf books for my list. (The top shelf of our home library contains the majority of our non-fiction spiritual or theological works organized alphabetically by authors' last names—I have a very long way to go to get through our top shelf books.) He ultimately pulled three books he thought I should prioritize, and I ended up putting them all on my list. Humility: True Greatness is the first one I've tackled this year.

Mahaney divides this book into three parts and gives the following explanation for his structuring of the book in the introduction:

"In the first part we'll learn that, no matter our age or vocation, humility is our greatest friend and pride our greatest enemy. In part two we'll discover that genuine humility requires a radical redefinition of success. We'll learn from Jesus Christ as He teaches His disciples the nature of true greatness, and why this greatness is attainable only through His death on the cross for sinners like you and me. Finally, in part three we'll get very practical. We'll examine how to cultivate humility and weaken pride each and every day."

Humility is certainly a difficult topic to write on. By choosing to do so, you're bound to open yourself up to the criticism that it must take an awfully proud—and therefore unqualified—person to claim to be an authority on the subject of humility, and the author very clearly spelled out his concern about this in the opening pages of the book. I actually found this to be a little off-putting and found myself being hypercritical as I began this book and in reading the first two parts especially. I believe it's important to think critically when reading anything, particularly theological topics I'm seeking to apply in my personal life, but it was humbling for me as a reader to have to put the book down and ask God to forgive my prideful, critical attitude toward Mahaney and to show me what He would have me learn from this book. (Whether this makes the application value of a book on humility vs. pride phenomenal or abysmal would be a great subject of debate.)

While I do think Mahaney inserted himself more than necessary into this book, he handled the topic thoroughly and Biblically and I found this book to be a helpful exhortation overall. The real value of the book, in my opinion, is found in the third section where he delivers practical ways to cultivate humility in our daily lives. He explains each method comprehensively throughout this section and then includes a list at the end of the books containing the practices he just finished detailing—the kind of list you could tape on your bathroom mirror or copy down in your journal to help you implement his suggestions. This list alone was worth the book.

The only thing I would have added is a similar list of all the books Mahaney referenced and recommended throughout his own book. It certainly wouldn't be difficult to go back through and make that list yourself, but it definitely would have paired nicely with his list of suggestions to cultivate humility. 

All in all, I would recommend reading Humility. I know I personally have to battle pride in my own life, and I think it's a sin every human struggles with to some degree. Reading this book was helpful to me in my ongoing quest to put the sin of pride to death in my own life, and I hope it helps you too if you decide to read it.

What's your best tactic to kill pride and cultivate humility?